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      <image:caption>At The Other Side, we use our personal lived experience to help you recognise, acknowledge and explore core issues that will help you along your own path to healing. We understand how important it is have someone journey with you and guide you along a path that you have not travelled before. Or, maybe you have, but you appreciate the wisdom, guidance and companionship along the way. Using the truth of God’s Word, and with particular focus on narcissistic abuse and toxic relationships, we at The Other Side, are passionate about helping others reach the other side of their pain and trauma to a place of healing after experiencing narcissistic abuse. “Let us go over to the Other Side”, the words of Jesus, found across three out of the four Gospels, in the Bible, tells the story of how Jesus calmed the raging Sea of Galilee. His words were spoken not only as an instruction, a command, but also as a promise. An assurance to those who were with Him would make it to the “other side.” Has your mind been left in turmoil? Has your heart been broken and you fear that it will never be made whole? Has your soul been ransacked and ravaged by narcissistic abuse? Let the Scriptures soothe your soul and help you to the other side.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>"Narcissistic abuse does not usually include forms of physical abuse with physical signs like bruises. The signs of narcissistic abuse are invisible, which makes it much harder to identify. The abuse is more ambiguous and difficult to prove, but it is no less damaging because it’s a form of spiritual rape. (Own emphasis added.) Over time, the abuse chips away at the target’s self-confidence and self-esteem. The target isn’t even aware it’s happening until the damage has been done. The abuse is always about control.”’ Bree Bonchay, LCSW, and founder of World Narcissistic Abuse Awareness Day,</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Now, in the world, we are increasingly becoming more impacted by narcissism. We at The Other Side, through the use of Scripture, aim to help others, recognise, admit, and be able to to go to the heart of a matter. It may seem as if you are on an ever-winding path, that the mountain is insurmountable, and yes, you will have what we call “ouch moments”, but the Scripture Soulution will enable you to move on from that moment, so that you are able to move through your pain to the other side, where your healing awaits. Let your journey begin!</image:caption>
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